lap security
I always have to have something in my lap when I’m sitting down – be it my purse when I’m out in public or pillows and blankets when I’m at home. If there’s nothing there I get really nervous and feel like a part of me is missing.
I always have to have something in my lap when I’m sitting down – be it my purse when I’m out in public or pillows and blankets when I’m at home. If there’s nothing there I get really nervous and feel like a part of me is missing.



Wow, I’m EXACTLY the same way! Weird.
Ditto.
I sometimes feel naked because I play guitar and I’m used to something in my lap. If I don’t feel like playing, I lay down. Learn to play the guitar and let your neurosis be functional.
That’s called womb fantasy. Women do it.
Same here… It drives me crazy when im ou and I have nothing to put in my lap
I do this. Whilst eating my lunch I have to have my bag on my lap and at home I must have a cushion. It doesn’t matter when I am at a table though. If I have nothing on my lap I must cross my legs.