keeping tabs, but not policing
Whenever I let someone borrow a movie, I remember with great accuracy who has it. But somehow I can never ask for it back; I have some dvds that have been gone upwards of 3 years.
Whenever I let someone borrow a movie, I remember with great accuracy who has it. But somehow I can never ask for it back; I have some dvds that have been gone upwards of 3 years.



I lent my copy of Scream to this girl I went to college with two years ago and even though she’s graduated and we live in different states I don’t want to give up hope that I can somehow get it back. Well, somehow besides asking.
really? don’t you think your time spent worrying is worth more than a $2.00 dvd? time to move on or just ask for the darn thing back! don’t live like this – too sad.
I have the same problem with lending things. I keep tabs so I can remember not to lend items to people who don’t return things. Most of the time though, I don’t let people borrow my possessions because it irks me to no end when they don’t return it!